Caer Bien, Caer Mal

When you want to say you like someone in the sense that you get along well, use the expression CAER BIEN:

Me cae bien la profesora.

I like the professor (She's ok by me)

If you dislike someone, use the expression CAER MAL:

Me cae mal el profesor nuevo.

I dislike the new professor.

You also can say:

No me cae bien el profesor nuevo.	I do not like the new professor.
No me cae mal el profesor.	I do not dislike the professor.

What is the difference between these statements? It is a subtle difference. Think about the statements in English and what they imply to you. One is more ACTIVE than the other: To say you do not like a person is not to say that you DISLIKE them - you may simply feel neutral or have no real opinion. You don't put that person into a category with people you LIKE or want to be with. To say you DISLIKE a person is stronger - it means you have an active negative feeling.
Use Caer when discussing friends or acquaintances, because when you use Gustar in reference to human beings, it connotes a physical attraction:

Me gustan los hombres morenos.

I am attracted to dark-haired men.

To ask about someone's romantic interest in you, try ¿Me quieres? or ¿Me amas?

Avoid the error of *Me gusto - this implies you are physically appealing to yourself which is probably not what you mean to say.

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